I help first responders and their partners design lives & relationships they deserve.

Using trauma-informed coaching to clarify vision and rebuild connection.

I help first responders and their partners design lives & relationships they deserve.

No Therapy Speak. No Sugarcoating.

Just An Approach That Works.

"Working with Erin has been life-changing for our marriage. I was skeptical at first about doing individual sessions instead of meeting together, but it turned out to be incredibly effective. Erin helped us understand that, while we thought we were communicating well, we were missing the mark. She gave us the tools and insight we needed to truly connect and navigate challenges together.

Erin genuinely cares, this isn’t just a job to her. Her compassion and commitment made all the difference. I truly don’t think we’d be where we are today without her guidance."

JCP- Fire Wife

Hi. I'm Erin Maccabee

You’ve Put On Emotional Armor for the Job. I’ll Help You Remove it for Home.

I'm not just a trained integration coach, I've lived the life. As a former partner to a first responder, I've experienced the emotional walls, the silence, the cycles, and ultimately the cost of untreated trauma.

I hope you'll find my approach is direct, trauma-aware, and deeply practical.

I've created some signature systems like the P.R.E.S.S.U.R.E. Framework and The Connection Code to help you efficiently understand what’s happening, where the breakdowns come from, and what you can do right now to be the partner, parent, and person you want to be.

"I'm not a therapist. I'm a mindset & relationship optimizer who knows what it’s like to love someone in the first responder world and what it takes for both of you to not lose yourself in it."

Trusted by Those Who Serve

and Support

Erin delivers keynotes & trainings for professionals and their families

Trusted by Those Who Serve and Support

Support Is Available

You Have Options

Through coaching, training, and my podcast, The Flashpoint Podcast, I support frontline professionals, their partners, and their departments to optimize mindsets, lifestyle, and relationships.

COACHING

SPEAKING/TRAINING

THE FLASHPOINT PODCAST

Coaching & Programs

Learn a System to navigate emotional breakdowns

and find your way back to connection.

My 1-1 Coaching & Programs are Ideal for

First Responders

When the job demands everything, home should be your safe place. But if you feel shut down, detached, or like you don’t know how to open up anymore, I can help you find the words and the way back.

Partners

You love them, but you're tired of feeling invisible. If you’ve been walking on eggshells or begging for connection, I'll help you speak the language they understand and rebuild trust from the inside out.

Client Stories

What Will Be Your Success Story?

Here’s what they have to say about their experience.

"I was living in a bottle before I met Erin. She gets us. I wouldn't be where I'm at today if I didn't start talking to her. I'd be fired, dead or locked up. She saved me. I'm sure there are countless others who feel the same way. She gets what I'm going through and doesn't treat me like a kid in art class. Thank you so much!"

M.R.,

Firefighter

Ohio

“I feel the most confident I’ve felt in my life since Erin and I started working together.”

Mike O.

Retired LEO

Ohio

"As First Responders we exist in a different reality than most. I existed in a different world than anyone that loved me. People outside of our culture can’t understand what we struggle with….and I’m happy that they don’t have to. When I met Erin I knew I met “my people.” Hours of great conversation with this badass woman lead to me seeing things the way they really are and not the way my PTSD was making me see them. How was this possible? When you are at your lowest point in life there is nothing more important than having someone that has been there and fought their way through to the other side. Erin has been where you are and knows how to get you through the toughest times of your life. I consider Erin someone that I trust with my life. As any First Responder knows, that level of trust is earned and not given."